How Can I Please You?
“How can I please you?”
Do you understand the importance of that question? Does it seem trivial to you?
Being able to ask others that question is very important. It can make you a pleasant social entity. It’s a great privilege to have others with whom you can ask that question. It shouldn’t be taken for granted or under-appreciated. It’s a great honor and pleasant luxury.
When you no longer have interest to ask that question, and when you no longer have time to answer that question, then don’t be surprised if your social connections suffer or deteriorate.
Do you understand that if you have to spend most of your time tending to your own care, then you have less time to ask others: How can I please you?
I don’t necessarily mean you ask the question literally. I mean that through your actions you pursue answers to that question.
If you have to spend much of your time working just to meet your own needs, then you have less time to please others. If you have to spend most of your days tending to your own poor health issues, then you can’t be spending that time pleasing others.